We’ve all had the experience of being around someone who brings out the best in us. A person whose energy drives us into being the finest possible version of ourselves, someone who we want to make proud or impress, but we can’t quite put our finger on the reason why.
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I don’t believe that people are born good or bad, but I do think that subconsciously, we often fall into certain roles. Our character traits and the energy we send out to the outside world is usually dictated by our personal circumstances, social influences and upbringing.
Your vibrations and the energy you send, negative or positive, will determine who you attract into your life. For example, if you position yourself as someone who is insecure, needy and negative, you will unconsciously create an energy bubble preventing you from becoming the best version of yourself. I call these people “takers,” and they may at first glance appear very likeable but scratch the surface and you may notice they are argumentative, disagreeable, relentlessly demanding or persistent, constantly negative, always seeing the glass half empty, unable to accept responsibility, and blaming everyone but themselves for their problems.
The “giver,” on the other hand, tends to be the person on the other side trying to fill the emptiness, the negativity and the demands of the “takers” in their lives. While they seem like obviously pleasant people, often they fail to reach the pinnacle of their best selves too. As they concentrate on helping and giving energy to “takers,” they consequentially sap the energy for their own development and self-improvement. Of course we all have the tendency to show some of the traits mentioned above, and we don’t all necessarily fall easily into one of the two categories. I think it’s good to remember, however, that you alone are the master of your own energy and what you choose to send out to the universe.
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People who have learned to take responsibility for their happiness and well-being are the same people who have learned to fill themselves with love, which they then enjoy spreading to those around them. Rather than trying to grab at love through taking, they love themselves entirely. It is only when one develops an intrinsic sense of self-worth do they stop needing other’s approval and attention to feel good about themselves.
